A world where one person walks up to another and says
“Hey let’s get married”
“Sure. How many kids shall we have?”
“3 sounds good”
“Perfect. Done deal”
A bit fast?
Not enough finessing, you say?
Well here’s another way to approach it…
When I was 15 I realized the world was a big and scary place. And I was failing. A LOT.
When I looked in the mirror I could have hated what I saw.
But I chose not to.
I saw that it was essentially “me and you against the world kid”
With little obvious resources I took up the challenge.
You see becoming self confident is a process not an event.
It doesn’t begin with the “3 kids conversation”
It begins with a bit of electricity, excitement and anticipation.
And even (drum roll…)
A trip to the movies. No long term commitment. Simply fun and possibilities.
So here’s the crunch…
Which movie are you going to take yourself to see?
Because just for once…
Let’s bloody well call self confidence what it is.
It’s falling in love…with yourself.
And it starts with a little sprinkle of nervousness.
Anticipation? shyness? uncertainty?
But you know when it goes well it’s going to be so damn good.
And you have to do it. Because…Reality check….
You are awesome and unique and you must fall in love with yourself.
Just start the process and, believe me, the party will soon bring itself.
Who’s committing to that first date?
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